to say today. I haven't written anything in a few days, but things have certainly been "developing". AJ and I, as I mentioned before, have been talking more. We actually attended our first conseling session yesterday, which I hope turns out to be productive. AJ has had some major revelations over the past few weeks. Very good insights into himself. A lot of this is thanks to some very good friends who have been able to help him see things objectively.
I myself have been on a mission of "discovery" of my own. I, like AJ, often find myself in need of "external validation". This seems to be a common genotype on the gay gene.
My ignorance to AJ's signals of love and affection has also become evident. Yes, I do think he can do a better job of showing me respect and making me feel prioritized and special to him, but I do need to acknowledge the steps he has taken.
Will AJ and I work through OUR issues and problems, first as individuals, then as a couple and make it after all (sounds like the Mary Tyler Moore theme). Only time will tell, but the odds seem to have certainly shifted!
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